2009年10月11日日曜日

Dr, John DeMartini

John Demartini from The Great Work DVD

Because everybody has a set of values and because it's dictating how they see the world and act upon the world, determining their sensory and motor functions, all decisions in any split second is been based upon those value systems.
So their life is completely demonstrating their values 24 hours a day.
Now what happens is, as they go through life sometimes they subordinate themselves and minimize themselves relative to people who they think have more than them.
Maybe they think somebody has more wealth in them, or more intelligence in them, or more spiritual awareness, or maybe they think they're more successful, or maybe they have a better relationship, or maybe they're socially connected, or maybe they have a better looks. Anytime they intend to minimize themselves relative to somebody else and subordinate themselves to them, they tend to inject other people's values into their life and try to be more like them.
Emerson said "Envious ignorance and imitation is suicide".
Because instead of being authentic to ourselves, we start to be somebody we're not. When we do, we consciously think I wanna do this. But our unconscious which is based on our real values keep making us do what's truly in our value system. It keeps making us make decisions, it keeps making us see things and act upon things. So anytime we consciously try to go off on a direction that's not matching our unconsciousness, there's an in-congruency.
Now, when the science of in-congruency is you hear yourself inwardly or even outwardly, vocally saying, "I should be doing this, I gotta be doing this, I need to be doing this, I'm supposed to be doing this", which are all languages of imperatives of outside authorities.
When somebody is congruent, they say "I love doing what I do. I'm inspired by it, this is what I've always dreamed of." Because now their values and their actions are congruent.
The word fulfillment is directly proportioned to how well those are congruent. So if you feel fulfilled and grateful for life, they're congruent.
Now, if all of a sudden you're setting goals and or objectives, or things you wanna create or manifest that are not, you get what you could call resistance. You start getting this part that makes you think, somehow I'm not on track, I'm keep going off track. I can't stay focused. What's wrong with me? I keep sabotaging, I keep not manifesting. Those are all signs that you're not congruent. The reason being is because whether you're conscious or consciously aware of it, you are constantly manifesting with the secret 24 hours a day. Whatever your values are.
Now, let me give you an example, something that just happened today.
I had an opportunity to have a drive with a lovely lady into this airport Todel, and which interesting is, as I was driving she was saying "You know, I would really wanna manifest a man in my life now. I'm ready for a man in my life.".  And I said "No". and she goes "What do you mean 'NO'?"
I said "No". "If you're truly ready to manifest a man in your life, you have a man in your life." She was saying, "What do you mean by that?" and I said "Because your unconscious is constantly creating your reality. and what you consciously think you want and what you're unconsciously or actually wanting are two different things right now." and she says, "What do I do about that? I really want a man." I said "NO, let's just look at that." I said "What do you think you are looking for in a man?" We made a list of things what she was looking for in a man, idomise some things. and I said "Now, where are those in your life right now? Let's go one by one and idomise those." "Where do you have somebody that's having deep conversation with you? Who's somebody that's giving you hugs? Who's somebody that's somewhat sensuous and has affection for you? Who's that the things you're attractive?" and we idomised each one of those things and found a dozen men in her life that were pulling in each of those pieces. Then we said, "What else are you looking for in a relationship?" "One that gives me freedom." "Well, who is this providing you freedom?" and we idomise everything she was looking for in a man and we found out that instead of having in one man, she had it dispersed between a dozen men. and then I said "Now, the last time you were in a relationship with a man, one man, what were some of the pains you had?" "Well, we sometimes would have arguments. He wanted to do sometimes I didn't wanna do. Sometimes he expected me to be doing  things I really didn't wanna do, it was not priority. Wanted me to wait on him sometimes." We went through all these different things and in her mind, there were more draw backs and benefits of being with one man. So even though her conscious self which is what she is injecting from all the friends says, I want a man, her unconscious was associating pains with her past relationships dealing with men. So as long as she had pains to associate with those men and unconsciously was avoiding them but yet still wanting all those traits, that she did want. She automatically was manifesting every traits she was looking for in a dispersement of men, that allow her to go home at night and have freedom. and not have to be attached, not have to wait on somebody et cetera and could call and say, "Look I have to go now" and do it just exactly in a time in a degree that she wanted it. She says, when she finally listen to that, saw that, she goes, "Man, this is amazing I realize now that I really done that, including my father, I'm connected to him, and he plays part of that roll, and I've got another guy who wants to buy me things, and I've got another guy who wants to do me things, and another guy who is really spiritual, wants to meditate." and I said "Can you see you never had a man, one man who's done all that? She goes, "Yeah, and I think I was expecting one man to do that." "Can you see that's a false expectation, it's not real? No human being's gonna do all those things for you?" She did and so she said "Can you see that you built up some anger of that and you married once and you see that some of the pain associated with that?" She goes "Yes", and I said "Let's go back and dissolve some of the pains, and put that in back into perspective which I have a method for I call 'The DeMartini Method' to help dissolve all that past delusions, baggage. Then as long as you have more associations that are beneficial over here and more pains over here, you're gonna move over here and take your so called 'soul mate' that you're looking for and disperse it into variety of mates.I would say the soul mate in every one's life is always present but either in one or many forms. If it's more painful to have it dispersed, we'll get it in one. If it's more painful to have it in one, we'll have in many.
So after we got through, she was now entreat. cause, she realized "Oh, my God, everything I am looking for is really in that form." and she said "I feel energized right now, I feel empowered right now". I said, "Can you see that you are a master creator, your unconscious motives are constantly creating your reality, You're not missing anything. Your real motives, not your fantasy motives were really manifesting this. Now, if you wanna change your values, I can show you, I can take them and go through the De MarTini Method and dissolve all the pains in all those past relations including her ex-husband. Now we can show up some pains and drawbacks on dispersing them like this, and we can literally shift your consciousness because we're shifting your values, and then you start manifesting one and you'll be amazed in how quickly you manifest a new relationship in your life. and then you'll get a one guy. But if you have an expectation of him providing everything with you, you're probably unrealistic. So the ideal relationship is that you'll have one that's very close and intimate and you'll have a variety of other male figures that allow you to take maybe intellectual conversation or other factors in your life. and the bounce between the one and the many as the Greek said many thousands of years ago is the wisest thing in life. and you'll have one that's very special and intimate and you'll have many that are friends.
and anyway, all I know is that she realized this, she had kind of a lightness feeling and she realized, "Wow, I really have the power and I have created that, and my values did that." and so again, we go back to the secret.
The law of manifestation, the law of attraction is we attract our inner most dominate thought. We dominate our thought in what's truly important to us. But the thing is as the most of us don't know ourselves. It goes back to the Dorific Oracle "Know thyself, be thyself, love thyself." So few people know who they are. They don't know what their values are.



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